Recipes to share with your children

By April Meyerson, PCWS parent

Very Easy Bread Recipe

2 cups very warm water large spoonful of honey

1 T. yeast

Flour – about 5-6 cups (a mix of white and whole wheat)

1 t. salt

1. Put warm water into a large mixing bowl and stir in honey

2. Sprinkle the yeast over the top of the water. Let it foam up.

3. Start adding flour and sprinkle in the salt. Children love to make it “snow” into the bowl.

4. When the dough is stiff and no longer sticky, cover it with a towel and let it rest for a little while (about 15 minutes).

5. Knead the dough and form dough into rolls.

6. Place rolls on an oiled baking sheet.

7. If you have the time, you can let the rise a little longer on the pan, covered.

8. Bake at 350 for about 20 minutes or until light brown.

Recipe from The Waldorf Kindergarten Snack Book, Collected by Lisa Hildreth

 

Baked Apples

6 large baking apples

6 T. butter, softened

1⁄2 cup sugar (rapadura or similar, if possible) grated rind of 2 lemons juice of 2 lemons

1 t. ground ginger

1⁄2 t. ground cinnamon 1⁄4 t. ground cloves

1⁄4 t. ground cardamom

1⁄4. Cup currants or raisins

1. Core apples from stem side through the center (but not entirely through) and peel from top to about 1/3 the way down.

2. Combine butter and sugar

3. Stir in remaining ingredients and place of spoonful of stuffing in each apple.

4. Place in a buttered baking pan with a little water.

5. Bake about 2 hours at 325 degrees or until apples are tender.

Recipe from Nourishing Traditions, Sally Fallon

We would love to hear from our PCWS families of any recipes or crafts you enjoy doing with your children! Please comment here and let us know.  Or send to info@potomaccrescentschool.org.

 

 

Our yearly Fall Festival, October 13th— Volunteers Needed!!

By Aglaia Benni, PCWS Parent

As the weather turns cooler and a picture of the archangel Michael appeared in a chalk drawing on the first grade chalkboard, I am reminded of the importance of festivals. My children already have the year divided in their minds by festivals we have celebrated over the years. Since school started they know it is almost time for our FALL FESTIVAL. This is my 4th year involved in planning the event for our lovely school. Many things are on my mind that need to be planned and organized…but seeing the excitement in my children picking up every acorn, stick and leaf to be used in some capacity for the FALL FESTIVAL, brings joy to my heart and reminds me what a special event it is for them. If this is your first FALL FESTIVAL, let me prepare you…it is A LOT of work…but it brings our school together early in the school year and bonds us for years to come.

WELCOME new and existing families! (From PCWS’s Board of Directors)

by Adriana Niño, PCWS Chair of the Board of Directors and Parent

After a summer full of excitement and water play, the time has come to attend classes and to create a routine for the new school year. In addition to new and existing families, our school is also excited to welcome new teachers who have joined our family this year. Ms. Eryn Lake and Ms. Paula Thomas , the Blue Bird teachers; Ms. Gail Morrow, the First Grade teacher; Ms. Victoria Mansuri, the Second Grade teacher; and Darian Andreas, the Music teacher. It takes a village to raise a child, and we are proud to have these teachers be a part of our “village”. No matter what class one’s child is in, the entire PCWS village participates in our children’s education and positive school experiences. Today I would like to thank the many existing families who contribute to our village in a variety of ways, and I would like to invite new families to get involved in the school’s activities and events. There are many ways in which you can participate:

• Volunteer with the Parent Association – They organize most school events, namely the Fall Festival and the Spring Dance, but many others as well.
• Volunteer with the Board of Directors – The Board oversees a variety of “big picture” projects on behalf of the school. Currently, the most important of these projects are the search of a new facility to which we can move in three years, and the creation of a special fund dedicated to this cause.
• Volunteer with the Handwork Group – This group not only creates the beauties and treasures that are sold during our events, but it is also a great world of companionship and play dates for the very little ones. Drop in every Friday morning, or every blue moon, and you will always find great company. Plus… no handwork experience necessary!
• Volunteer in the Office – help with clerical work, return phone calls to prospective families who wish to speak with a parent of the school, post fliers… There are many things that can be done to help the office, be it for one hour or ten.
• Donate your time on specific events – The school has a table at nearby festivals throughout the year, and holds several open houses as well. If you think you will have some time on occasion, please do to participate in a specific event.
• Donate dollars to our Annual Fund – Every year we launch an Annual Fund to maintain the spirit of giving amongst our community and to close the gap between operational expenses and revenue. Giving to the fund is important for many obvious financial reasons, but it is mostly important as potential large donors have requirements of 100% community participation prior to considering us as recipients of theirs funds. You can make a donation anytime through our –BRAND NEW!—website http://www.potomaccrescentschool.org , or you can do so during the annual fund drive on December 2012 and April 2013.
• Donate your skill – Are you a music player? A computer guru? A stellar woodworker? A dancer? A finance expert? Our school has many needs, and pays for many of the services it needs. However, if you are willing to be a pro-bono school service provider, we will love to hear from you.

 

To support our school in any of the ways mentioned above, please contact us here or stop by the office and speak with Tricia Clark.

I look forward to sharing with all of you the challenging and rewarding experience of educating our children. If at any time you have any question regarding our school or need guidance in any way, please do not hesitate to contact me.

A Letter of Gratitude

By Aglaia Benni, PCWS Parent
Mother to Mateen-Oaktree and Naim-Bluebird

As our rising first grader has lost his first tooth two days ago, I am reminded of where we have been and the changes ahead. We first walked through PCWS’s doors 4 years ago with a 2 year old and a 6 week old baby in tow — a new family ready for OUR first school experience. And what a beautiful journey it has been!

Today, I want to express our deep gratitude to the PCWS families and faculty who welcomed us. Some of you are leaving us this year, and just like losing that first tooth, it evokes some sentimental feelings. You have been an invaluable part of our experience and life. As you move on to far and near places, know that we will keep a part of you in our hearts. There is something very special about raising your children together.

You have served on our board, cooked, baked, knitted, felted, dyed, carpentered, built, danced, sang, played music and so much more. Thank you for sharing your gifts. Thank you for sharing your smiles and friendly words. Thank you for your words of calming advice on everything from allergies to kayaking. Thank you for sharing your children. It has been a pleasure seeing them grow. Thank you for teaching our children, loving them and guiding them (even if they were not in your class).

May you have as warm a welcome as you have given us in your new communities. In the same way, we hope to extend the same welcome you have given us to new families at PCWS.

Why We Chose Waldorf Education

By Joan Goldfarb, PCWS Parent

When Jerry was several months old, someone gave us the book Babyhood, by Penelope Leach. That book was a revelation to me, because it gives the reader a glimpse of how the world must feel for a newborn who has never experienced bright lights or loud sounds, and is in the process of adjusting to all of the stimuli around them. I began to pay attention to what kinds of experiences I was exposing my child to, and what those experiences must feel like from his perspective. In hindsight, I think that reading that book was my first step on the path towards choosing Waldorf education for our children.

It is so easy for us adults—who are accustomed to the world around us and busy making things happen—to overlook the difference between our experience of the world and our children’s experience of it. When we watch television, we don’t notice how often the images change. If our children watch television, the split-second changes in images are not only confusing, but overwhelming to their senses. When we see snow outside the window, our first impulse may be to worry about the difficulties of driving in it, having to deal with wet and muddy shoes and clothes, and finding enough layers to keep everyone warm. When children see snow, they see endless possibilities for play, and the sheer beauty and wonder of it. That difference may be inconvenient—particularly when our children want to linger in the snow while we want to get our errands done—but I believe that recognizing that difference and honoring our children is what allows them to have the most healthy childhood we can give them, and ultimately the most fulfilling adulthood. And I believe that Waldorf education offers the greatest opportunity to do that.

It is difficult to reduce Waldorf education to one sentence, but if I had to, I would say that Waldorf educators revere childhood and call upon that reverence to teach our children in ways that are meaningful to the children based on where they are developmentally. In my family’s experience at Potomac Crescent, from the first day of Parent-Child class through the third grade, the teachers have held a deep respect for the children and keen understanding of what is developing within them. They give the utmost thought and care to preparing the classroom and the work of each day based on what will nourish each child’s whole being. The children sense this. It seems to me that this reverence alone, without ever speaking a word, plants self-respect and contentment deep within the children.

But the combination of reverence for the children and understanding of their development also results in so much more. For example, it means that they are not rushed into learning letters and numbers in early childhood, and instead are supported in their natural pursuit of creative play and in their experience of wonder. The children develop confidence by being given work and challenges that are commensurate with their development and abilities, and they embrace the work because it is meaningful for them. They develop a strong sense of beauty, not only because the teachers take such care to ensure their surroundings are beautiful, but also because they are learning to make beautiful things with their own hands by being carefully taught to do so and by using supplies—such as beeswax crayons, wet-on-wet watercolor paints, and wooden pentatonic recorders—that enhance the beauty of their creations. It means that they develop a connection with one another, because they stay with the same teacher and group of children during the early grades so that their relationships can deepen at a time when they are developing their emotional selves. And it means that they know what it feels like for their work and learning to feel meaningful to them—whether they are hand washing the cloth napkins they use at the snack table in kindergarten, or hearing stories in the early grades that reflect their deepening emotional life.

There are probably many people who would not see much value in these outcomes, because they cannot be measured in terms of academic achievement. And there are some who go so far as to eschew Waldorf education because children at a Waldorf school often start to read later than their friends at other schools. In my own experience, it has not been easy to see my children’s younger friends start to read before my children. But what I can tell you is that, once Jerry did start reading, he quickly surpassed his friends at other schools, precisely because of the inner strength he derived from his Waldorf education—it was a challenge he was ready and eager to meet, and he had a rich wellspring of internal motivation to drive him. In the end, I believe that the Waldorf philosophy of understanding and honoring childhood, and teaching children in a way that is meaningful to them, results in confident and content children who maintain a sense of beauty and wonder in the world; feel a connection to the people and world around them; gladly take on work and approach it with creativity and initiative; and have the resources within them to find purpose in their lives. I have seen these qualities thriving within my own children already. And in my view, these are the outcomes I am looking for.

Why I love Waldorf

 

By Donna Hemmert, PCWS Parent

I love Waldorf education for many reasons.  If I had to articulate an overall reason, I guess I could sum it up by saying Waldorf education is optimistic.  What is not optimistic about being reverent?  Or simplicity, beauty, nature, imagination, ritual and magic (the magic of childhood)?  That is what my family has found at Waldorf.

I struggle with all the “screen staring” we do these days and I think it disconnects us from each other as much as it connects us.  I find that the first thing Waldorf does is cut out the noise and provide an atmosphere of calm beauty. And the focus on nature and being outside is also a part of that simplicity and beauty.

Waldorf also focuses on the whole child, not just academics.  It allows the child to be a child, not a mini-adult.   And to be outside, using his body and imagination. My husband and I both spent many of our childhood hours outside making toys out of sticks, rocks and anything we could find.  We have such fond memories of that.  And even though we weren’t learning academics at a young age, we both did very well in school – so we don’t believe early academics is the answer.  By choosing Waldorf, this helps us allow our child to play, be physical and spend time in his imagination.  There will be plenty of time for him to learn to read.

But at the end of the day, we wanted more for our child than just the academics in his academic career. We wanted an environment that supported our goal of instilling reverence and respect in this world…..to see the beauty while learning to be a good person.  We feel Waldorf supports that vision.

Overprotecting Our Children

Currently, in our society, we are much better at protecting our children than we are at allowing them to develop independence and a little daring. With all of the best intentions we have sequestered our children in our homes. Fear of automobiles, pedophiles, injuries, and lawsuits has denied our children the opportunities we had growing up. We roller-skated without knee pads and helmets, walked to school, to our friends’ houses, and to stores without supervision. We played in the schoolyard, climbed trees and fences, and stayed out after dark. So few children do the same today.

In her book, The Blessing of a Skinned Knee: Using Jewish Traditions to Raise Self-Reliant Children, Wendy Mogel notes that it is also a parent’s job to teach children to manage risks. Mogel contends that if young people today were faced with the opportunity to do something dramatic and life-changing, like the Exodus from Egypt, most would decline, enslaved more by fear than by Pharaoh.

During the second half of childhood, parents need to help children manage risks as a counter balance to the protective home environment we have developed during their early years.

For ten years my wife and I worked at a summer institute in Maine. This was a fine arrangement for our family as it allowed us to leave the heat and humidity of Washington in the summer and to spend six weeks in northern New England. From the time our daughter was four, we all headed north in July and our daughter took part in the program that was provided for the children. In many ways the environment there was ideal. The Steiner Institute was housed on a small college campus and my daughter and her summer friends could walk anywhere without restriction.

Just prior to her fourteenth birthday, our daughter began voicing reservations about returning to Maine. She complained that there was nothing to do. We reminded her that there were art classes, kayaking trips, beach excursions, swimming, innumerable opportunities provided by the program, but she was adamant. So we began to explore other options. My wife did some research to find alternatives and discovered a wilderness canoe trip solely for teenage girls led by young women guides. This trip would be vigorous and rugged. The group would head off for a ten-day adventure with extensive paddling and extended portages. They would have to camp out, cook their own food, make do without the comforts of home (no showers, no toilets), and be at the mercy of the bugs and the weather. We thought for sure that our daughter would express no interest whatsoever. We were wrong. She wanted to go.

Sending her on this trip was a huge step for us. We had to leave her with her brother in Boston and know that she was getting on a plane for Canada and that when she got off one of the tour leaders, whom we had never met, would be there to meet her and a few other girls and take them six hours north of Toronto to the base camp where they would join the group to begin their trip. The only communication that we would have during the two weeks that she was away was a phone message that she had arrived in Toronto safely and two email messages—one when they left the base-camp for their canoe trip and one when they returned.

At the end of the two weeks, my wife and I drove back to Boston eager to pick her up at the airport. When she came through customs with the stewardess, she flew as an unaccompanied minor, we were there waiting. She looked so pleased with herself, self confident and mature. She was strong from the canoeing and portaging, healthy from the days outdoors, and different, not just because of the hair rinse that the girls had shared on their adventure, but because she had been through a rite of passage and was so pleased with herself.

This year she was eager to return. She saved her babysitting money and spent nineteen days in the wilderness braving mosquitoes, whitewater, and the SARS epidemic. Protecting our children is essential, but not protecting them can be just as important.

Why I Chose Waldorf Education

By Dave Schilling, PCWS Parent

I had not heard of Waldorf education until we lived in Monterey, CA, about six years ago, where I was attending the Naval Postgraduate School. We met another military couple there who had a son the same age as our daughter.  The father was a Navy officer also attending the school and our wives became friends and met frequently for play dates with the kids. The mother was very much into Waldorf education and often spoke of it. The thing that struck me was the artistic and holistic approach to education as well as the idea of learning through play and exploration.

In my own experience I started out in a parochial Lutheran school until 6th grade, which was less than a positive experience. In 7th grade I was moved to an independent private school for middle and high school, but struggled to catch up from what I had missed from the previous school. However, I felt very fortunate to have been given the opportunity to attend the school I did and I knew that I wanted to provide the same opportunity to my children. To discover Waldorf education was an added bonus.

So, when it came time for us to move to D.C., one of the first things we did was research where the Waldorf schools were, and were thrilled when we found PCWS, and enrolled our daughter immediately.

That was the reason we chose Waldorf education, but there is much more to the story of why we stay and will continue as long as possible.

For my own part, Waldorf education is everything I wished my educational experience would have been, especially in my elementary years. The manner and care that is put into the curriculum is exquisite.  The way in which the children are taught in a manner that is much better suited to their learning style is priceless. There has never been a day when either of my children was not absolutely excited about going to school.  For them, it is not a tedious workplace where they must suffer through hours of lecture and memorization of dates and facts, but it truly is a place of wonder and discovery where the children learn according to their nature. This approach promotes a much greater retention of knowledge than any conventional academic process.

Somewhere along the way, the U.S. academic system got off track and the art of learning was lost and gave way to a system of training children to take tests. This is neither beneficial for the child nor beneficial for society as a whole, for that child will lack the life skills that are so desperately needed in adulthood.

I am excited to see my children excited about school and learning and am consistently amazed at the things they learn and accomplish. From writing to painting to handwork, there has not been one instance where I wasn’t absolutely thrilled with what my children were doing. And I am even more excited about the future and what is coming next. There is no doubt in my mind that the skills they are learning today will allow them to be productive and fruitful adults. There will be no limit to what they can accomplish because they have learned from the very start to imagine the possibilities and not be constrained by conventional walls.

Parents as Providers

By Jack Petrash

Providing for our children is another of parenting’s paradoxes. Because our children start out in life depending on us for everything, it is vital that we live fully into our role as providers. Food, clothing, and meaningful experiences are all a part of what parents work hard to provide. The more thought and care we put into providing for our children at an early age, the more they benefit. Providing healthy food, warm clothing, and good medical care are just the kind of assignments that good parents take seriously. It is our job to provide the very best for our children and over time these decisions will involve schools, camps, after school lessons, and all sorts of teams. But here too, Emerson’s words apply: “Every excess has its defect… Every sweet hath its sour.”

In his book, Too Much of a Good Thing: Raising Children of Character in an Indulgent Age, Dan Kindlon points out that providing too much for our children for too long, impedes character development. When Kindlon did a survey on “too good to be true teenagers,” the kinds of healthy children parents hope to raise, he found that there were certain characteristics that these young people had in common. They cleaned their own rooms. They did not have a phone in their room (I assume that also means a cell phone). And they did some kind of community service. What the parents provided was very simple; these children ate dinner regularly as a family.

What is clear from this study is that we should always provide our children with opportunities to give as well as receive. This can mean different things in different families. It can mean that children make their own beds or do the dishes. It can mean that adolescents do their own laundry or clean the bathroom. And with teenagers it can mean that they work outside of the home on weekends or in the summer to earn their own spending money, keeping in mind that independence fosters responsibility and that leads to self-esteem.

A number of years ago, the state of California offered a work program for young people modeled after the Civilian Conservation Corps, the federally funded program during the Depression. The California program promised “hard work, long hours, and low pay.” It had a waiting list, mostly with young people from well-to-do families who wanted to find out what they were really worth.

In the end children must provide for themselves. How many kids today pay for their own car insurance, their gasoline, their cell phones, or their credit card bills in college? What message do we send our children when we give them so much, other than the message of privilege or entitlement?

Parenting has to be a bi-polar undertaking. We are called on to protect our children, but not over-protect them, to provide for them, but not indulge them. These are the challenges that parenting sets before us; and as with any art form, there are no easy answers. We simply have to be present in the moment and move between the opposites to achieve the right balance. Sometimes this work seems overwhelming and I must say there are nights when I get down. It is then that I look for a little help with this work and this quotation by E.F. Schumacher from Small is Beautiful, helps.

“Through all our lives we are faced with the task of reconciling opposites which, in logical thought, cannot be reconciled… How can one reconcile the demands of freedom and discipline in education? Countless mothers and teachers, in fact, do it, but no one can write down a solution. They do it by bringing into the situation a force that belongs to a higher level where opposites are transcended – the power of love.”

These words remind me that I am just a struggling artist who really loves his work.